It’s been awhile since i last blogged. Things just got out of hand, I was so busy in school; music major is not an easy course, it’s very demanding but i love it. Anyway I was already done with my first year in taking up music and I’ve learned quite a lot already. Anyway, the most exciting part of it all is that I met my soulmate just a few months ago and he is also a music major!. Actually he’s been a friend since April 24, 2012. I first took notice of him back when i was leading a worship in an interchurch activity three years ago; it was when i finished singing and was going back to my chair, i then saw him staring intensely at me, I thought it was weird that he didn’t take away his eyes when i looked at him, and that sets him apart I guess because it got my attention. Anyway, the following week, I saw him playing the keyboard while singing and that’s when i recognized him and thought “oh okay he is also in a band, maybe that’s why he stared at me last time”.
He befriended me through facebook and we started chatting; we instantly clicked! he was like me in all aspect, I enjoyed the music that he shared and I really thought that he has a good taste. I like the way he sings and play the keyboard at the same time, It reminds me about my ideal man a lot and i found out that he’s in a music school; that was really awesome. Well i like him back then, I like talking to him and it was like i can just be crazy whenever we’re having a conversation through chat. He was too different whenever we met in person though, because he don’t talk to me or even say Hi, I often caught him looking at me but he doesn’t say anything. That’s quite odd but it was fine because i am not good at talking to new acquaintances anyway, so we continued being friends and chatted. I was thinking back then that maybe if he doesn’t have a girlfriend, which he had, I will definitely like him, actually as i think back right now, i kind of had a minor crush on him back then, but i restrained myself thinking that it was wrong because of his relationship. He accompanied me on one of our bootcamp for young people that year and it was a powerful one. After the bootcamp, i had several facebook fasting and it was the time we kind of drifted apart, after months of deactivating my account, we stopped chatting eventually and went on with our separate lives.
After two years, I received a revelation to go to school and took up music, I contacted him because he’s the only person i know that is in a music school. We started chatting a bit that summer because of my inquiries and at last i enrolled at the same school where he was. He’s in higher year and we just had 2 classes together, voice class and chorus class. I was relieved that he was there and i thought that the school won’t be too lonely for me, but i was utterly mistaken! He don’t talk to me, sometimes he don’t even look at me. I was very lonely in my first few days because i thought i was the weird kid, everyone called me “Kpop” because they thought i was Korean; i know that they were just joking, but it was really awkward for me; i am used to people calling me Chinese or Korean or Taiwanese but that time i was kind of hurt because i thought i was bullied, and this person that i know was not talking to me at all.
Anyway, time went by, I get used with the school environment and i noticed that he’s constantly absent! LOL I don’t see him at school most of the time and i get to have new friends. Anyway, we still chatted and i update him about the subject requirements; when the semester was about to end he started showing up, we had a couple of performances and he’s joining. I started to be very comfortable around my classmates and around him, so we started talking to each other. We got a bit more closer because he brought cards and we started playing together, they taught me how to play some games and i was really addicted. Anyway, there was this one performance that we had and he joined; I was in a corner waiting for the program to end and he suddenly came near to me and handed a pretty cupcake, my heart just skip a beat and i’m sure i blushed!! My friends teased me constantly that they’re sure he like me and we had this wonderful connection. Well it all started with that, I restrained myself most of the time because i know he’s in a relationship; however, as we got closer, he began confessing to me that his relationship was shaky for the longest time.
At our semester break, i went home and we began chatting day and night, I started to really fall for him that time, I kind of see him differently and i am liking him very much. I kept everything to myself because i don’t want to ruin his relationship with his girlfriend. I guess it was november first week that he told me that they broke up and that was it. We started to really get closer and closer until such time I just knew that he’s the one. I’ve been asking for a man that will make me feel very special and he’s so perfect with that desciption, He confessed that he had liked me ever since we first met and been longing to be friends with me for the longest time. We talked and talked for hours never bored with each other, laughing, teasing each other, confessing things about our past; that was the time I told myself that there’s no other person i want to spend my lifetime with than him. His name is Don Erich Gallego.